Toxic Leaders Be Gone

Meet Dr. Carleta Alston

TOXIC LEADERS BE GONE!

It’s amazing to witness a leader who continually rants and raves about the office and puts everyone in the general vicinity on edge.

What’s even more amazing is the lack of selfawareness. This individual may not even realize the whirlwind that he is causing and the toxicity that he leaves in the wake

Employees cannot thrive in a toxic environment. The stress alone can cause negative health impacts. It is no wonder that when employees are led by individuals who lack leadership skills, they tend to call off work more frequently. They are sick on a regular basis. They have limited focus on getting the job done with preoccupations of anticipated rages by the leader. They even give up and find a new job just to have peace of mind.

Why is the leader toxic?

This is a difficult question to answer; however, one can make an educated guess as to the lack of leadership development.

Toxic leaders have key characteristics:

  • Impatient
  • Over-demanding Behavior
  • Personal Insecurities/Inadequacies
  • Deeply Rooted Psychological Issues
  • Low Self-Esteem

TIPS FOR DIFUSING A TOXIC ENVIRONMENT

A leader can turn the situation around and promote positivity in the work environment.

  • By showing employees that you can be patient with them, they will be less intimidated by your presence.
  • By expressing clear expectations of the task and its deadline, the leader does not have to be overbearing with employees to get the desired outcomes
  • By taking personal inventory, the leader can seek external counseling or therapy to work on areas that may impede progress with being an effective leader.
  • By practicing positive thinking strategies, the leader can learn (over time) how to build back self-esteem.

A good leader makes every effort to eradicate toxicity in the work environment, to support the wellbeing of her employees, and to support the health of the organization.

Leading with Confidence

Meet Dr. Carleta Alston

LEADING WITH CONFIDENCE

Anytime there is a call for someone to step up and join the leadership of an organization, there is some consternation about whether one can do the job.

This is normal. Everyone, if honest, can relate to selfdoubting feelings and gremlins that whisper in your ear, “You can’t do this.” That’s when you know that you can

To solidify your confidence in being the leader you desire to be, take into consideration these important points:

  • Spend ample time in reflection to learn about yourself and your strengths and weaknesses. Self-awareness is critical to how a leader presents herself.
  • Be intentional about listening to the people you lead and your colleagues. It will position you to garner useful information to make good decisions later down the line.
  • Own the room. When you enter any space, walk in it with confidence, a smile, and straight posture. Whether you realize it or not, people are watching. They assess your body language. Let that language speak loudly and clearly that you know what you are doing
  • Plan ahead so that you have an intelligent response around the boardroom table. There is nothing more embarrassing and strip confidence than to be put on the spot and not have the right answer. This requires knowing your craft well enough to give an answer on a moment’s notice.

FINAL THOUGHTS

It might surprise you to know that there are more people rooting for you than against you, and that should give you some comfort to step into your leadership with confidence.